merit system

semalam, me and hubby come up with an idea of merit/demerit system for the kids. We prepare a table on a piece of paper with 2 columns. One with Haziq and harith on the other column . We told haziq and harith, siapa yang behave akan dapat right sign , and siapa yang tak behave dapat cross sign. At the end of a week, whoever collect most right sign entitle to new toys, courtesy of ayah..hehehehhe.

behave criteria
mandi dan gosok gigi
makan smpai habis
kemas mainan selepas main
tak letak botol atas meja selepas menyusu

not behave criteria
bergaduh
tak kemas mainan selepas main
main game lama-lama

that is what i can think of...so far , am sure the list will grow hehehhe

haziq and harith, mama and ayah bukan nak saje-saje nak buat abang atau adik menagis , we just want you to learn which is good and which is wrong or bad. And in order for you to get things you have to earned it, just like in life, you need to work or put effort to get what you want.

haziq took this very serious..hehheheh...one cross sign that i gave to him yesterday, he cried his lungs out as if he cannot accept to see a cross sign in his columns...hehehhe...merajuk...lepas tuh boley pulak ayah dia kata "OK OK ayah padam"...mama tak setuju la...he has to learn that apa yg dia buat tuh salah, he has to learn it the hard way. Mama sayang abang ngan adik, i just wanted the best from you guys.Love you.

happy birthday

12 december was mama birthday and ayah decided to take us out for a walk and makan2 to celebrate. mama nih jarang demand, tapi teringin nak makan kek and spaghetti @ SR. tapi...naik ajer kereta..."ayah, abang nak makan mcdonald" haziq requested...well for ayah, haziq wish always granted so tak ada la SR ...uwaaaa....

mama tak makan pon kat mcdonald cuma makan fries ajer..sbb duk terliur SR nyer kek, the we went to tesco, replenish barang dapur dan susu yg dah lama tak ada kat rumah...sigh...melepas la SR aku nih...

tapi ayah nih kekadang pandai buat surprise...on the way balik ingatkan dia nak balik terus rupanya ayah bawak gi mont kiara to belanja mama makan kat SR

thanks darling. sometimes you can get very sweet, most of the time, u r really being you...hehehhe...i love you.

gerak geri gasiiinngggggg....

Last saturday,haziq was in his first attempt participating in a telematch. He took part all event for the age 4 to 6 years old. As early as 8am we already registered and received goodies , haziq was very delighted and the idea of he is going to take part in games like in gerak geri gasing show make him smiling from ear to ear. As for me i just want to see his ability to hear , understand and execute instructions and above all to enjoy himself.

Generally Haziq did well in the event, he was first in "isi air dalam baldi" and third in "isi air dalam botol" team events. He doesn't won the colouring contest though..hehhehe. Unexpectedly i also participated in "makan epal tergantung". "Ahhh..piece of cake" but truthfully i did't manage to get even third place...hahah...memalukan betul..heheh

The community should received a pat in the back for the wonderful idea to conduct such event but the execution a bit messy, the PA system was not loud enough , the arrangement of participants was also not done properly and ... heheh..saje ajer la ni nak komen...during the "isi air dalam botol" they should determined the winner by the volume of water for each team but they just concluded it to which team completed in the least time..what!..no wonder la the team which emerged first didn't bother to filled up the bottle while Haziq carefully not to let water spilled. Good boy anak mama nih..but we enjoyed ourselves

We came home with loads of prizes plus lucky draw price which we received .... a ...errr...."flask makanan" that keep food hot or cold. Hhehe..not bad la huh...

jom layan....

faces...

boring tul..dah 2 weekend hubby duk keje hujung minggu, ada urgent job kena complete, apa pon sempat la jugak kami gi house warming /makan2 kat rumah watie. Thanks sbb sudi jemput kami, and the nasik dagang..i like...lupa plak nak tapau karipap tuh...rugi tol...miahahha

slideshow kat bawah nih adalah many faces of my bundle of joy haziq and harith. diorng ni memang laa...cute sesangat... tapi bila tang bergaduh..boley naik darah woo...kena sabar..Ya Allah ko tabah kan lah hati ku ini, agar aku bisa jadi hamba Mu , isteri , ibu dan perepmpuan solehah. Amiinnn... so apa kata kita layan ajer gambar2 nih...ciaowww

resepi lagi

hari ini aku masak ayam masak merah, udang goreng kunyit dan sup cendawan. huhuh... untuk kengkawan opis aku nak share resepi udang tuh..

bahan-bahan
4 ulas bawang merah
2 ulas bawang putih
1 biji bawang besar
1/2 kilo udang (dibuand kepala dan dibasuh bersih dan dilumur dengan serbuk kunyit)
1 biji kentang (dipotong wedges and digoreng)sedikit daun kuchai dipotong panjang2)
sedikit madu
1 sudu kecil sos tiram
garam


cara memasak
tumiskan bawang putih dan bawang merah, setelah naik bau, masukkan udang dan goreng sebentar. Kemudian masukkan kentang dan daun kuchai dan gaul rata. Masukkan sos tiram dan sedikit garam. Yang terakhir sekali masukkan madu dan gaul rata. Sesuai dihidang kepada anak2 sbb tak pedas.

selamat mencuba

charlatan .....

i can see it coming though... my main concern is the idea that i'm going to go through it all over again. Sweet words, complements, were just a cover up to a very systematic yet cunning divide and conquer process. Everything was still fresh in my mind , i remember everything...forever.

But am i going to run? I saw people running and leaving before. Do i need to stand up now and fight? i believed in myself and as a matter of fact i proved myself worthy so why should i back up? these questions spinning and swirling inside my head...the feeling? i just can't put in in words, no words can perfectly describe my feeling. Ya Allah..Please help me, please help me...

resepi sambal goreng to share

semalam masak sambal goreng jawa nih..heheh..personally its my fav dish so i wanted it to be my specialty..huhhuu...unfortunately hubby tak brapa layan...anyway here the recepi goes

bahan2: (anggaran untuk 4-6 org makan)
3 biji bawang besar, dihiris halus
4 biji bawang putih , ditumbuk
2 pkt tempe digoreng
3 keping tahu digoreng
3 biji sederhana besar kentang, digoreng
2 keping tahu kering, dipotong kecil dan direndam
2 pkt besar soh hoon , digoreng
5 biji cili merah
1/2 cawan santan
sedikit petai , kalau mahu
sedikit pedal ,hati ayam atau paru . rencah
sedikit udang besar, rencah
kacang panjang, potong serong

cara masak
tumis bawang putih, kemudian masukkan bawang besar dan tumis hingga layu. Masukkan hati/pedal/paru dan udang dan cili merah, kemudian masukkan tahu kering dan kacang panjang dan petai, kacau rata. Masukkan sedikit garam dan rasa. Make sure masin la skit sbb bahan lain belom dimasukkan Tumis lagi. Ramaskan soh hoon yang telah digoreng, masukkan tahu, tempe dan kentang. Kacau rata. Masukkan santan dan kacau lagi sampai mesra.

kalau nak letak kicap pon boley, kalau nak merah dan pedas, tumis la cili kisar bersama bawang. Which one you choose , mmg sedap.

enak dimakan bersama nasik impit, dan rendang/serunding , jadi macam lontong kering/lontong darat. selamat mencuba.Sorry tak ada gambo..huhu...tak sempat dah liciinnn...

raya2008@cu's

seronoknya semalam..hati girang, we went to tok cu's at shah alam. mcm raya pertama lak. Cu prepare nasi bukhari, ayam merah, kuah kacang, sayur campur. Oya plak sponsor ketupat palas and me sponsor sambal gorang and kuah kacang plus nasik himpit..best giler , mcm raya pertama bersama cu yg dah ku anggap mcm mak.

Thanks cu for being there for me, for being very understanding and for letting me be in your life lepas mak tinggal kan kita...I love you so much, semoga cu bahagia sekeluarga hingga akhirat insya Allah

so tak yah la citer byk..hehhejhehe..layaannnn

make my day !!

who made my day today ?? myself..yeayy!!...what did i do?? haaaa... i cooked a special meal to hubby and kids...the menu...taraaa..nasi lemak "mama" special.. hahahhaha. i got the recipe from various site and alter it according to my taste and tip from arwah mak. Initially i thought it would taste odd maklmumlah jarang masak, but it turn out both hubby and kids love them...liciinnnnn

the ingredients,
1. Beras - 4 pot
2. Santan - 1/2 biji (kurang lemak atau kedekut...huhuhu)
3. Bawang merah - 3 ulas hiris halus
4. Serai - 2 batang dititik
5. Halia - 1 inci - potong 2 atau 3
6. Halba - ikut suka (i letak dlm segenggam)

cara masak nasi
In goes all the ingredients above , guna rice cooker ajer.Dah campur semua , letak garam sikit dan daun pandan. Masak seperti nasik biasa.

petua , 2-3 jam sebelum nak masak basuh dan rendam beras dahulu. Nasi jadi cantik dan kembang bila masak. Bagi yg tak kenal halba , hahha..aku la tuh...nih la dia










untuk sambal nya, masak sambal macam biasa cuma petua drpd arwah mak, tumis udang kering yang ditumbuk halus dulu then baru masukkan cily yang telah dikisar.

seperti biasa dihidangkan bersama timun, kacang, ikan bilis dan telur but in addition to that ada la jugak masak ayam kicap pedas dan daging masak hitam (MIL yg bagi..heheh untung ek? alhamdullillah).









apa pon i happy sbb hubby makan bertambah-tambah, haziq ngan harith pon sama..

ratu hati ....

its friday and its raining, so hubby and me decided to leave office after maghrib instead. ..sambil tunggu tuh i come across this useful website http://ratuhati.com/ and nak share la ngan u guys semua, untuk yang dah berkahwin, yang nak berkahwin, yg belum berkahwin pon boley baca in fact untuk para bapa out there..hehehhe

enjoy reading....